My wife has the strangest vagina I have ever seen.

A while back, I met this beautiful woman and fell in love with her. We waited to have intercourse before we married. The first time I saw her vagina, well it was not what I expected, I love her with all my heart, but I cannot get past the way how her vagina looks. It is really odd and strange, nothing like what I have seen in the past with former girlfriends.
I do not want to make a comment to my wife about her strange-looking vagina; I do not want to hurt her feelings. Nevertheless, it is interfering with our relationship. There have been a lot of times when she has requested that I perform oral sex on her, but I find her vagina too repulsive to do that. It is not a pretty sight and getting up close and personal by placing my face on it, does not seem something that I want to do.
I truly hope I can get by this issue with her vagina, but it is looking hard. My feelings towards her are clear, but it is just her vagina, which I cannot tolerate. I wish she would do something about it on her own, so she does not need to find out that I do not find it appealing. Perhaps one day I will be able to look directly and her vagina and then enjoy looking at it, but not today.