My inner lips are much larger than the outer ones, and they’re much darker in color. I really wish there was a way to lighten them or make them pink, like what they did to Michael Jackson’s skin. I also wish my inner lips were smaller and smoother. They look wrinkly because of how big they are. When I look at nude magazines or watch porn, all the women seem to have small, tight, pink vulvas. I don’t know how “normal” mine is because every time I see other women, theirs don’t look anything like mine, so I feel like mine is ugly.
I would love to change the way my vulva looks. I’m not sure if anything can fix the color, but it would be great if there was a way to make my inner lips smaller without needing surgery. My biggest insecurity is the dark color of my inner lips. I’ve seen women with bigger inner lips, but theirs are still pink. If mine were pink, I wouldn’t mind having big lips as much because at least one of my insecurities would be gone.
I want to feel comfortable with my partner exploring my vulva, but I’ve never wanted him to because I don’t feel “pretty” down there. One time, my ex mentioned that a friend of his had gotten a “pubic bone tuck” (I’m not sure what that is), and he said it was a good idea if you don’t look great down there. I asked if he was hinting that I should get it done, and he said no, that I was fine. But I didn’t believe him. I felt like he was suggesting something without saying it directly. I constantly worry about being rejected because of how my vulva looks, even though no one has ever made fun of it. I still think, “What if he’s telling his friends I don’t look good down there?”
I think there should be more open discussion about what’s “normal” when it comes to vulvas. It’s hard to live feeling ashamed of your body, especially something as personal as your genitalia, and wishing you could change it. Many people don’t understand how deep this insecurity can go. You might try to be positive on the outside, but inside, you still feel like something’s wrong with your body. All I want is to feel normal and have something I think is pretty between my legs. That’s what I hope for, and I dream of one day feeling happy with how I look down there.
I would love to change the way my vulva looks. I’m not sure if anything can fix the color, but it would be great if there was a way to make my inner lips smaller without needing surgery. My biggest insecurity is the dark color of my inner lips. I’ve seen women with bigger inner lips, but theirs are still pink. If mine were pink, I wouldn’t mind having big lips as much because at least one of my insecurities would be gone.
I want to feel comfortable with my partner exploring my vulva, but I’ve never wanted him to because I don’t feel “pretty” down there. One time, my ex mentioned that a friend of his had gotten a “pubic bone tuck” (I’m not sure what that is), and he said it was a good idea if you don’t look great down there. I asked if he was hinting that I should get it done, and he said no, that I was fine. But I didn’t believe him. I felt like he was suggesting something without saying it directly. I constantly worry about being rejected because of how my vulva looks, even though no one has ever made fun of it. I still think, “What if he’s telling his friends I don’t look good down there?”
I think there should be more open discussion about what’s “normal” when it comes to vulvas. It’s hard to live feeling ashamed of your body, especially something as personal as your genitalia, and wishing you could change it. Many people don’t understand how deep this insecurity can go. You might try to be positive on the outside, but inside, you still feel like something’s wrong with your body. All I want is to feel normal and have something I think is pretty between my legs. That’s what I hope for, and I dream of one day feeling happy with how I look down there.
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