Lips too big and floppy

I do not like it, I am 19 years old and see it too big and floppy. It did not bother me too much before, but now that I have to worry about other people seeing it, it is another thing I have to be self-conscious about. Other people's reactions really influence what I think, which explains why it did not bother me before but now it does.
The lips are too big and floppy. I do not think it is normal, I try to find pictures of other women, but it has not helped much. The color is pretty dark, kind of purplish on the outside, pink on the inside.