I think vulva looks are very important. If female genitals are more attractive then it makes for a better erection on behalf of the male, which is better for both of us. Since we can enjoy sex more since the desire is present as I feel an attraction to all her body.
A couple of times, I have been disappointed with the appearance of women’s vulvas. One was buzzed to about 1/4", which looked horrible and did not feel much better. Another would have looked pretty good bald, but it had this huge wad of hair directly above it that she said she would not ever consider shaving off, go figure I got involved with a hairy girl.
I guess I would not say that I worry about how a woman’s vulva will look like. I would say I am more in anticipation of it looking very good. However, I have not rejected any woman up to date due to the appearance of her genitals, but the one with the big wad of hair ended up being a one-time thing anyway, so I did not care about her.
The perfect vulva would be one that is perfectly smooth everywhere even above, smooth lines and the fewer edges the better, lips being tight together even with legs spread, as small as possible. And with the area having a tightly padded consistency (no leg bones). Moreover, an ugly vulva is one that is wide open, or when it is all weathered by excessive use.
I have joked about the appearance of a woman’s genitals, although never to her face. I make fun of wide-open ones and weathered ones. Vulvas covered with jungle (hair) all the time (and so does my wife). I guess I found what I was looking for in my wife’s vulva, although I wish she had it a bit better looking too.